Monday, April 21, 2008
TOASTMASTERS SPEACH
First step to success-Conquering my fear…
I am Humaira Omar and I fear public speaking. There I said it. Just as a gambler makes a confession I stand here today and I confess I had a fear of public speaking.
And I am proud to admit that I am now over my obsession of public speaking. I heard of this group who meet every Friday to help people like us and hey here I am in front of you and confident so this should speak for itself. Did you know that according to studies when asked what people fear the most the first was public speaking then came death? Could that be right first public speaking before death. Surely that sounds absurd. So that means that to a normal person going to a funeral would mean you better of in a casket than doing the eulogy. I’ve often heard people say ‘id rather die than give a speech’ my toastmaster leaders the nation is in great need of you as if I have survived then there is definitely hope for you.
This wonderful cure to my sickness is called toastmasters. A youth leadership programme, which helped me, overcomes my fears of public speaking. In the past extracting a tooth was more pleasurable than saying a speech. You know how everybody is born with a gift well lets just say that public speaking was never one of mine. Every time I was called upon to say a speech I would feel my knees turn to jelly and I felt the entire room caving in on me. And every time had to say a speech I would think of the poor kids in India who have to work 18 hours a day and do not have access to an education and even all that couldn’t help me appreciate the idea of standing up and giving a speech. I could never understand the idea behind public speaking. But that was probably because I did not realize how important eloquence is. I now know the importance of being able to stand up and say something that makes an impact and that makes a point. I now know how important presentation is and that we can either make or break it via presentation.
I have realized that personality is important and what you say and the way you say it speaks volumes of yourself. Toastmasters have taught me not only the importance of saying it but also the importance of saying it properly. Really I do not object to people looking at their watches when I am speaking. But I do strongly object when they start shaking them to make sure they are still going. So all of you looking at your watches stop right now:) yes I have learnt that it is s important to get to everybody’s attention and not to bore them to sleep.
Throughout the history of public speaking, there have been certain speeches, and speakers, who have stood above the rest. An example would be the Martin Luther King speech. When Martin Luther King said he had a dream the world that heard him all wanted to have a dream and today I have a dream. And my dream is to be a good public speaker.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank toastmasters for helping me overcome my fears and no more make a trip to the dentist more appealing than my English class. I would like to take this opportunity to thank toastmasters for teaching me the true meaning of confidence and self-respect. For teaching me that nothing is impossible if you make an effort. Today I realize that you should reach for the moon and if you miss its ok. You will land amongst the stars. I have learnt that in life you can either be a shepherd or sheep, you can either be a driver or the passenger. But it is up to you either walk a path followed or lead to a path that was never followed and you can leave a trail. You can have the choice and I want to be a leader. I want to make things happen.
I leave you with the wise words of Khalil Gibran ‘the significance of a man is not in what he attains but in what he longs to attain’
Even though this was an uphill struggle, and there were many hurdles to cross I now understand the true importance of breathing and the art of practice I am proud to say I am Humaira Omar. I came. I saw and I conquered…
I am Humaira Omar and I fear public speaking. There I said it. Just as a gambler makes a confession I stand here today and I confess I had a fear of public speaking.
And I am proud to admit that I am now over my obsession of public speaking. I heard of this group who meet every Friday to help people like us and hey here I am in front of you and confident so this should speak for itself. Did you know that according to studies when asked what people fear the most the first was public speaking then came death? Could that be right first public speaking before death. Surely that sounds absurd. So that means that to a normal person going to a funeral would mean you better of in a casket than doing the eulogy. I’ve often heard people say ‘id rather die than give a speech’ my toastmaster leaders the nation is in great need of you as if I have survived then there is definitely hope for you.
This wonderful cure to my sickness is called toastmasters. A youth leadership programme, which helped me, overcomes my fears of public speaking. In the past extracting a tooth was more pleasurable than saying a speech. You know how everybody is born with a gift well lets just say that public speaking was never one of mine. Every time I was called upon to say a speech I would feel my knees turn to jelly and I felt the entire room caving in on me. And every time had to say a speech I would think of the poor kids in India who have to work 18 hours a day and do not have access to an education and even all that couldn’t help me appreciate the idea of standing up and giving a speech. I could never understand the idea behind public speaking. But that was probably because I did not realize how important eloquence is. I now know the importance of being able to stand up and say something that makes an impact and that makes a point. I now know how important presentation is and that we can either make or break it via presentation.
I have realized that personality is important and what you say and the way you say it speaks volumes of yourself. Toastmasters have taught me not only the importance of saying it but also the importance of saying it properly. Really I do not object to people looking at their watches when I am speaking. But I do strongly object when they start shaking them to make sure they are still going. So all of you looking at your watches stop right now:) yes I have learnt that it is s important to get to everybody’s attention and not to bore them to sleep.
Throughout the history of public speaking, there have been certain speeches, and speakers, who have stood above the rest. An example would be the Martin Luther King speech. When Martin Luther King said he had a dream the world that heard him all wanted to have a dream and today I have a dream. And my dream is to be a good public speaker.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank toastmasters for helping me overcome my fears and no more make a trip to the dentist more appealing than my English class. I would like to take this opportunity to thank toastmasters for teaching me the true meaning of confidence and self-respect. For teaching me that nothing is impossible if you make an effort. Today I realize that you should reach for the moon and if you miss its ok. You will land amongst the stars. I have learnt that in life you can either be a shepherd or sheep, you can either be a driver or the passenger. But it is up to you either walk a path followed or lead to a path that was never followed and you can leave a trail. You can have the choice and I want to be a leader. I want to make things happen.
I leave you with the wise words of Khalil Gibran ‘the significance of a man is not in what he attains but in what he longs to attain’
Even though this was an uphill struggle, and there were many hurdles to cross I now understand the true importance of breathing and the art of practice I am proud to say I am Humaira Omar. I came. I saw and I conquered…
LOG BOOK
Brief introduction:
My name is Humaira Adam Omar. I am currently in grade 11a. I attend Roshnee Islamic School. My view on life is that one should enjoy life. What’s the point of living life if you are too afraid to take any chances? Life is a journey. You should enjoy the ride and you can only do that if you learn to take risks. You never know . . . maybe it could be the best risk you have ever taken. Everyone has dreams. You should learn to fulfill your dreams because nothing comes on a golden platter. You have to work hard to make something out of your life. Don’t give up the first time you try. Every time you fall down, get up and try again. You will definitely succeed. Life is meant to be lived to the fullest. So start enjoying every moment in life. You only live once so make the best of it while you can. Don’t leave things for tomorrow because you never know if tomorrow will ever come. Stop trying to be someone you are not. Learn to be content with what you are. Nobody is perfect. We all have flaws. The key is to stop pointing out our flaws and start looking at our pros. Stop following everyone else. Start making your own choices in life. No one is ugly. Allah made everyone beautiful. We all are beautiful in our own ways. Start making the effort of being happy and happiness will come to you. Nothing is permanent in this world. We all are going to fade away some day or the other. Nothing goes with you to your grave except your deeds. So stop worrying about all the worldly things. It’s not worth it nor is it of any importance.
Personal Lifestyle Plan:
SWOT:
Weaknesses:
· I’m too lazy
· I’m very shy. I have a fear of public speaking.
· I hate being told what to do and I hate people telling me “no”
· I have a very short temper. I get angry and moody very fast.
· I never do things on time.
· I always postpone things to the last minute.
· I have a problem with thinking on the spot and impromptu speaking.
Strengths:
· I don’t mind experiencing new things. Life is a journey. If I only stick to one same old principle in life, how can I enjoy my life?
· I’m game for anything.
· I learn fast.
· I have big dreams, which I intend to fulfill.
· I create my own styles. I don’t go with old school all the time.
· I’m a girl with quite a few talents.
· I love working with numbers.
· I can multi-task.
Opportunities:
· I can go into many fields of studies.
· I’m very broad-minded.
· I’m modern so I won’t have a problem with doing things, which are not against my beliefs and principles.
· I have my parent’s support of pursuing my career.
· Even though I’m very shy, I can make friends very easily.
· I create roads for myself. I don’t follow everyone else’s roads.
· I have a good taste for fashion.
Threats:
· I can’t talk in public.
· My parents wont allow me to study overseas. They will allow me to study anything, but only in Gauteng.
· I want to be my own boss. I can’t work under someone. Especially someone who orders me around all the time.
GOALS:
Short Term Goals:
· Lose weight.
· Pass grade 11.
· Learn how to cook and bake.
· Start studying long in advance.
· Stop leaving everything for the last minute.
· Learn how to speak in public.
· Learn how to drive.
· Become a good Muslim.
Medium Term Goals:
· Finish school with excellent results.
· Start my studies at campus.
· Go to the University of Liverpool, Oxford University, University of Dubai, University of Cape Town, WITS, or Raugh.
· Go to the 2010 Soccer World cup.
· Study Chartered Accountancy.
· Become a better Muslim.
Long Term Goals:
· Finish my studies in the field of Chartered Accountancy.
· Start my career.
· Tour the world.
· Move out of South Africa.
· Be one of the most successful women in the world.
· Be extremely rich.
· Have a happily married life with 2 loving kids.
· Have the best private and public life ever.
· Be very professional, sophisticated women.
· Become a good Muslim.
General Term Goals:
· Do charity work.
· Make something out of my life.
· Finish school.
· Finish university and start a career.
· Get married.
· Live a happy life with my husband and 2 kids.
· Have lots and lots of money.
· Settle down in a foreign country.
· Learn how to drive and get my own car.
· Become a good Muslim.
Where do I see myself in 2 years time? (Insha Allah)
I am in grade 11 at the moment. Next year I will be in Matric. I will be finishing my Matric with excellent results. I will be going for a long holiday and only come back the week before I start campus. I will start campus and finish my first year of campus.
Where do I see myself in 5 years time? (Insha Allah)
I will be 22 years old. I will have completed my studies in the field, which I choose to be best for me. Most probably Chartered Accountancy. I will be a very professional, successful and sophisticated businesswoman. I will have toured the world and settled down in a foreign country with my family. I will have my own mansion and I will be living with my parents and siblings. I will have a perfect man in my life and will be planning my perfect wedding and marriage life.
Where do I see myself in 10 years time? (Insha Allah)
I will have a happily married life with 2 small kids. I will be living with my in-laws and will have a perfect relationship with my in-laws. Especially my mother-in-law. I will be having a few of my own businesses and will be living in a palace. My husband will be the most sweetest, loving and caring husband ever. My husband will be a billionaire. I will have the most perfect life with perfect relationships. I will be a successful and professional woman and will maintain all my relationships excellently.
Study Plan:
Where am I currently?
I am currently a scholar at the Roshnee Islamic School. I am in grade 11, standard 9. My subjects are:
· English
· Afrikaans
· Life Orientation
· Mathematics
· Science
· Accounting
· Computer Studies
· Islamic Studies
What are my study goals?
I would like to finish my studies at school next year. In the year 2010, I want do start my career studies in college.
I would like to study at the following universities:
· The University of Liverpool
· Oxford University
· University in Dubai
· University of Cape Town
· University of Witwatersrand
· Raugh
Chartered Accountancy:
Deals with financial matters such as taxation, accounting, estate planning and financial procedures. Prepare and report on financial statements. Advice clients on accounting methods. Specialize in accounting, financial planning, auditing and development of computer financial methods, tax or legal matters. CA needs to know mercantile and company law for handling legal aspects of contracts, estate planning or acting as executors, liquidators, trustees or curators. CA normally advances to positions in top management, such as financial directors.
Graphic Designing:
Concerned with advertising, packaging, publishing, magazine layouts, corporate identity, etc. design book covers, calendars, labels, wrappers, letterheads and trade marks. Must know how to market goods and how to influence public opinion through their designs. Multi-skilled in many technical disciplines, of which a strong drawing ability is the most important. Be able to come up with and implement new ideas, be able to manage time responsibly and intelligently and also be able to communicate ideas to employees and clients.
Fashion Designing:
Designing is one of the most important aspects of the fashion world. Everything revolves around designs. But it is not easy. You need to have a feel for textures and a flair for styles. Color and combination is important. Your minds eye should be able to put it al together before you start on a project. Sketch and drawing is a great help. You need a keen eye for detail.
Modeling:
· Television modeling: modeling before the movie camera, used for television commercials, cinema, video, Internet, etc. Modeling for video or films often include some acting and dancing and is mostly conducted on location. You need a flair for acting for successful television modeling.
· Print modeling: generally pose for still photographs, to be utilized in press advertisements, brochures, magazines, catalogues, calendars, etc. Models for print media have to work along with ad agencies and photographers.
· Showroom modeling: takes place in showrooms. Work generally for exporters, garment manufacturers and big garment retailers to display latest trends of fashion to buyers.
· Ramp or catwalk modeling/ live modeling: requires models to display garments and accessories in front of live audience. At an exhibition, fashion show, showroom or point of purchase. Requires long hours of practice. Requires tremendous confidence and poise. Must have good posture, walking style and body language.
· Advertising modeling: both print and electronic media has equal importance. Used to promote or popularize a product. Appear in press advertisements, posters, television commercials and advertising films. Basic acting skills and photogenic face is a must.
Photography:
Photography is a unique and creative medium of self-expression. It is an art form requiring aesthetic sense as well as technical expertise. Creating a commercial quality photograph requires the skill for choosing and presenting a subject in a way to achieve maximum effect with appropriate equipment. One should have a definite know how of angle, lighting and latest equipment and technology to make a name in the field.
What career is best for me and why?
At this moment in life, I have no idea what I want to do. Every time I have a different option on a career. I’m totally confused.
Though I think that Chartered Accountancy is the best for me. I always had an interest in Mathematics and Accounting. I love working with numbers. The world is always in need of CA’s. There is also a lot of money in Chartered Accountancy. Therefore, I think I will study CA.
Where am I going to get my money from to study?
· I want to try for a scholarship.
· A bursary.
· Or my parents.
How long will it take to finish my studies?
About 4 to 5 years.
Bcom Honors + CTA + 3 years articles + final qualifying exam (FQE) of Public Accounts and Auditors Board.
What do I have to do to get there?
I will have to study hard and put all my efforts in to make my dreams and wishes come true.
My entry requirements are:
Degree: Senior Certificate with University Pass.
Fitness Plan:
Goal for fitness:
My goal is to be very thin. I wish to lose a lot of weight. I want to be healthy, but I first want to be thin and than start eating properly. I want to exercise regularly and see results really fast. I have an urge to lose a lot of weight. I hate being overweight. I want to be minutely thin. I will achieve my goal!
humi2702@yahoo.com
yawarbaig@gmail.com
Dear Brother Yawar Baig.
Asslaamu Alaikum. My name is Humaira Adam Omar. I am a student of the Roshnee Islamic School. I am writing this letter to complement you on your presentation on the Power Of One. I think it was a very inspiring presentation. Mr. Sujee showed it to me in class. It thought me that life is but a journey. I can make a difference if I want to. I don’t need to follow people all the time. I can make my own roads and choose my own routes. I may not always be right, but at least I know that I tried. I want to be known in this world for something good that I did. When I die, I want people to remember and respect me for the difference I made in this world. This presentation has inspired me to chase my dreams and fulfill my wishes. I thank you for your inspiring power point presentation. I hope you have success in your dreams. Once again, Jazaakallah.
Wassalaam
Humaira Adam Omar
My name is Humaira Adam Omar. I am currently in grade 11a. I attend Roshnee Islamic School. My view on life is that one should enjoy life. What’s the point of living life if you are too afraid to take any chances? Life is a journey. You should enjoy the ride and you can only do that if you learn to take risks. You never know . . . maybe it could be the best risk you have ever taken. Everyone has dreams. You should learn to fulfill your dreams because nothing comes on a golden platter. You have to work hard to make something out of your life. Don’t give up the first time you try. Every time you fall down, get up and try again. You will definitely succeed. Life is meant to be lived to the fullest. So start enjoying every moment in life. You only live once so make the best of it while you can. Don’t leave things for tomorrow because you never know if tomorrow will ever come. Stop trying to be someone you are not. Learn to be content with what you are. Nobody is perfect. We all have flaws. The key is to stop pointing out our flaws and start looking at our pros. Stop following everyone else. Start making your own choices in life. No one is ugly. Allah made everyone beautiful. We all are beautiful in our own ways. Start making the effort of being happy and happiness will come to you. Nothing is permanent in this world. We all are going to fade away some day or the other. Nothing goes with you to your grave except your deeds. So stop worrying about all the worldly things. It’s not worth it nor is it of any importance.
Personal Lifestyle Plan:
SWOT:
Weaknesses:
· I’m too lazy
· I’m very shy. I have a fear of public speaking.
· I hate being told what to do and I hate people telling me “no”
· I have a very short temper. I get angry and moody very fast.
· I never do things on time.
· I always postpone things to the last minute.
· I have a problem with thinking on the spot and impromptu speaking.
Strengths:
· I don’t mind experiencing new things. Life is a journey. If I only stick to one same old principle in life, how can I enjoy my life?
· I’m game for anything.
· I learn fast.
· I have big dreams, which I intend to fulfill.
· I create my own styles. I don’t go with old school all the time.
· I’m a girl with quite a few talents.
· I love working with numbers.
· I can multi-task.
Opportunities:
· I can go into many fields of studies.
· I’m very broad-minded.
· I’m modern so I won’t have a problem with doing things, which are not against my beliefs and principles.
· I have my parent’s support of pursuing my career.
· Even though I’m very shy, I can make friends very easily.
· I create roads for myself. I don’t follow everyone else’s roads.
· I have a good taste for fashion.
Threats:
· I can’t talk in public.
· My parents wont allow me to study overseas. They will allow me to study anything, but only in Gauteng.
· I want to be my own boss. I can’t work under someone. Especially someone who orders me around all the time.
GOALS:
Short Term Goals:
· Lose weight.
· Pass grade 11.
· Learn how to cook and bake.
· Start studying long in advance.
· Stop leaving everything for the last minute.
· Learn how to speak in public.
· Learn how to drive.
· Become a good Muslim.
Medium Term Goals:
· Finish school with excellent results.
· Start my studies at campus.
· Go to the University of Liverpool, Oxford University, University of Dubai, University of Cape Town, WITS, or Raugh.
· Go to the 2010 Soccer World cup.
· Study Chartered Accountancy.
· Become a better Muslim.
Long Term Goals:
· Finish my studies in the field of Chartered Accountancy.
· Start my career.
· Tour the world.
· Move out of South Africa.
· Be one of the most successful women in the world.
· Be extremely rich.
· Have a happily married life with 2 loving kids.
· Have the best private and public life ever.
· Be very professional, sophisticated women.
· Become a good Muslim.
General Term Goals:
· Do charity work.
· Make something out of my life.
· Finish school.
· Finish university and start a career.
· Get married.
· Live a happy life with my husband and 2 kids.
· Have lots and lots of money.
· Settle down in a foreign country.
· Learn how to drive and get my own car.
· Become a good Muslim.
Where do I see myself in 2 years time? (Insha Allah)
I am in grade 11 at the moment. Next year I will be in Matric. I will be finishing my Matric with excellent results. I will be going for a long holiday and only come back the week before I start campus. I will start campus and finish my first year of campus.
Where do I see myself in 5 years time? (Insha Allah)
I will be 22 years old. I will have completed my studies in the field, which I choose to be best for me. Most probably Chartered Accountancy. I will be a very professional, successful and sophisticated businesswoman. I will have toured the world and settled down in a foreign country with my family. I will have my own mansion and I will be living with my parents and siblings. I will have a perfect man in my life and will be planning my perfect wedding and marriage life.
Where do I see myself in 10 years time? (Insha Allah)
I will have a happily married life with 2 small kids. I will be living with my in-laws and will have a perfect relationship with my in-laws. Especially my mother-in-law. I will be having a few of my own businesses and will be living in a palace. My husband will be the most sweetest, loving and caring husband ever. My husband will be a billionaire. I will have the most perfect life with perfect relationships. I will be a successful and professional woman and will maintain all my relationships excellently.
Study Plan:
Where am I currently?
I am currently a scholar at the Roshnee Islamic School. I am in grade 11, standard 9. My subjects are:
· English
· Afrikaans
· Life Orientation
· Mathematics
· Science
· Accounting
· Computer Studies
· Islamic Studies
What are my study goals?
I would like to finish my studies at school next year. In the year 2010, I want do start my career studies in college.
I would like to study at the following universities:
· The University of Liverpool
· Oxford University
· University in Dubai
· University of Cape Town
· University of Witwatersrand
· Raugh
Chartered Accountancy:
Deals with financial matters such as taxation, accounting, estate planning and financial procedures. Prepare and report on financial statements. Advice clients on accounting methods. Specialize in accounting, financial planning, auditing and development of computer financial methods, tax or legal matters. CA needs to know mercantile and company law for handling legal aspects of contracts, estate planning or acting as executors, liquidators, trustees or curators. CA normally advances to positions in top management, such as financial directors.
Graphic Designing:
Concerned with advertising, packaging, publishing, magazine layouts, corporate identity, etc. design book covers, calendars, labels, wrappers, letterheads and trade marks. Must know how to market goods and how to influence public opinion through their designs. Multi-skilled in many technical disciplines, of which a strong drawing ability is the most important. Be able to come up with and implement new ideas, be able to manage time responsibly and intelligently and also be able to communicate ideas to employees and clients.
Fashion Designing:
Designing is one of the most important aspects of the fashion world. Everything revolves around designs. But it is not easy. You need to have a feel for textures and a flair for styles. Color and combination is important. Your minds eye should be able to put it al together before you start on a project. Sketch and drawing is a great help. You need a keen eye for detail.
Modeling:
· Television modeling: modeling before the movie camera, used for television commercials, cinema, video, Internet, etc. Modeling for video or films often include some acting and dancing and is mostly conducted on location. You need a flair for acting for successful television modeling.
· Print modeling: generally pose for still photographs, to be utilized in press advertisements, brochures, magazines, catalogues, calendars, etc. Models for print media have to work along with ad agencies and photographers.
· Showroom modeling: takes place in showrooms. Work generally for exporters, garment manufacturers and big garment retailers to display latest trends of fashion to buyers.
· Ramp or catwalk modeling/ live modeling: requires models to display garments and accessories in front of live audience. At an exhibition, fashion show, showroom or point of purchase. Requires long hours of practice. Requires tremendous confidence and poise. Must have good posture, walking style and body language.
· Advertising modeling: both print and electronic media has equal importance. Used to promote or popularize a product. Appear in press advertisements, posters, television commercials and advertising films. Basic acting skills and photogenic face is a must.
Photography:
Photography is a unique and creative medium of self-expression. It is an art form requiring aesthetic sense as well as technical expertise. Creating a commercial quality photograph requires the skill for choosing and presenting a subject in a way to achieve maximum effect with appropriate equipment. One should have a definite know how of angle, lighting and latest equipment and technology to make a name in the field.
What career is best for me and why?
At this moment in life, I have no idea what I want to do. Every time I have a different option on a career. I’m totally confused.
Though I think that Chartered Accountancy is the best for me. I always had an interest in Mathematics and Accounting. I love working with numbers. The world is always in need of CA’s. There is also a lot of money in Chartered Accountancy. Therefore, I think I will study CA.
Where am I going to get my money from to study?
· I want to try for a scholarship.
· A bursary.
· Or my parents.
How long will it take to finish my studies?
About 4 to 5 years.
Bcom Honors + CTA + 3 years articles + final qualifying exam (FQE) of Public Accounts and Auditors Board.
What do I have to do to get there?
I will have to study hard and put all my efforts in to make my dreams and wishes come true.
My entry requirements are:
Degree: Senior Certificate with University Pass.
Fitness Plan:
Goal for fitness:
My goal is to be very thin. I wish to lose a lot of weight. I want to be healthy, but I first want to be thin and than start eating properly. I want to exercise regularly and see results really fast. I have an urge to lose a lot of weight. I hate being overweight. I want to be minutely thin. I will achieve my goal!
humi2702@yahoo.com
yawarbaig@gmail.com
Dear Brother Yawar Baig.
Asslaamu Alaikum. My name is Humaira Adam Omar. I am a student of the Roshnee Islamic School. I am writing this letter to complement you on your presentation on the Power Of One. I think it was a very inspiring presentation. Mr. Sujee showed it to me in class. It thought me that life is but a journey. I can make a difference if I want to. I don’t need to follow people all the time. I can make my own roads and choose my own routes. I may not always be right, but at least I know that I tried. I want to be known in this world for something good that I did. When I die, I want people to remember and respect me for the difference I made in this world. This presentation has inspired me to chase my dreams and fulfill my wishes. I thank you for your inspiring power point presentation. I hope you have success in your dreams. Once again, Jazaakallah.
Wassalaam
Humaira Adam Omar
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Good Night, Sleep Tight. Don't Let The Bedbugs Bite-speech
Good Night, Sleep Tight. Don’t Let The Bedbugs Bite.
The clock has struck 12. Everyone is fast asleep. Some are snoring. Some are even drooling. Have you ever heard someone say, “I sleep like I’m dead?” They are not lying. It is said that when a person is sleeping their soul is lifted out of their bodies so they are, well DEAD!!!
Assaalamu Alaikum. Today I will be speaking about the place where all our dreams are made and our wishes are fulfilled.
Dreamland by Lewis Carroll. When asleep, one has a dream where the most handsome, richest, sweet, loving and caring guy appears before you. The perfect guy that only appears in dreams because in reality it is IMPOSSIBLE to find such a perfect guy. Or a nightmare, where things with burned faces and creepy crawly creatures straight out of the exorcist are haunting you and that’s when “oops, mummy I think I wet my bed” happens. But it is here in dreamland center that we are reporting from and no creepy crawly creatures or people with burned faces can spoil our dreams tonight. No beds are going to be wetted tonight either. “But here, in Dreamland’s center, No spoiler’s hand may enter, These visions fair, this radiance rare, Shall never pass away.” Tonight is the night that no dream would be left unfulfilled. We shall try to make every POSSIBLE dream come true. That is what dreamland is all about. Fulfilling your dreams, but remember that every dream is only possible if you make the effort of turning your dream into reality. Nothing comes to you on a golden platter. You have to work hard to achieve your goals and fulfill your dreams.
You see yourself 10 years from now driving the latest car, wearing the latest clothes, parading the Dubai malls with the shiniest jewelry and everything you ever wished for. All everyone sees on you is Bling Bling. But only to realize that it was just another sweet dream. “The blaze of noonday splendor, The twilight soft and tender, May charm the eye: yet they shall die, Shall die and pass away.” But today I shall take that step, the step to success and make all my dreams and wishes come true, because tomorrow you can pinch me as hard as possible and I will know that I won’t be dreaming. I will turn all my dreams into reality because I have the power to make my dreams come true. This will be my destiny, my reality, my life. Sweet visions, sweet missions, sweet victory. “I see the shadows falling, The forms of old recalling:”
I believe that life without dreams is life without a purpose. Everyone has to have a dream. A wish that they want to fulfill. Dreams unify the mind, body and spirit. It provides you with insight into yourself and a means for self-exploration. So how exactly can one not have any dreams? Impossible.
I end off by saying: just live off your dreams. Start moving beyond dreamland. Reach for your dreams even if it means reaching for the stars.
Oh and by the way, sweet dreams to all.
The clock has struck 12. Everyone is fast asleep. Some are snoring. Some are even drooling. Have you ever heard someone say, “I sleep like I’m dead?” They are not lying. It is said that when a person is sleeping their soul is lifted out of their bodies so they are, well DEAD!!!
Assaalamu Alaikum. Today I will be speaking about the place where all our dreams are made and our wishes are fulfilled.
Dreamland by Lewis Carroll. When asleep, one has a dream where the most handsome, richest, sweet, loving and caring guy appears before you. The perfect guy that only appears in dreams because in reality it is IMPOSSIBLE to find such a perfect guy. Or a nightmare, where things with burned faces and creepy crawly creatures straight out of the exorcist are haunting you and that’s when “oops, mummy I think I wet my bed” happens. But it is here in dreamland center that we are reporting from and no creepy crawly creatures or people with burned faces can spoil our dreams tonight. No beds are going to be wetted tonight either. “But here, in Dreamland’s center, No spoiler’s hand may enter, These visions fair, this radiance rare, Shall never pass away.” Tonight is the night that no dream would be left unfulfilled. We shall try to make every POSSIBLE dream come true. That is what dreamland is all about. Fulfilling your dreams, but remember that every dream is only possible if you make the effort of turning your dream into reality. Nothing comes to you on a golden platter. You have to work hard to achieve your goals and fulfill your dreams.
You see yourself 10 years from now driving the latest car, wearing the latest clothes, parading the Dubai malls with the shiniest jewelry and everything you ever wished for. All everyone sees on you is Bling Bling. But only to realize that it was just another sweet dream. “The blaze of noonday splendor, The twilight soft and tender, May charm the eye: yet they shall die, Shall die and pass away.” But today I shall take that step, the step to success and make all my dreams and wishes come true, because tomorrow you can pinch me as hard as possible and I will know that I won’t be dreaming. I will turn all my dreams into reality because I have the power to make my dreams come true. This will be my destiny, my reality, my life. Sweet visions, sweet missions, sweet victory. “I see the shadows falling, The forms of old recalling:”
I believe that life without dreams is life without a purpose. Everyone has to have a dream. A wish that they want to fulfill. Dreams unify the mind, body and spirit. It provides you with insight into yourself and a means for self-exploration. So how exactly can one not have any dreams? Impossible.
I end off by saying: just live off your dreams. Start moving beyond dreamland. Reach for your dreams even if it means reaching for the stars.
Oh and by the way, sweet dreams to all.
Monday, February 18, 2008
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THE Antalasia TIMES
Superstition VS Stupidstition
Pg 1-5
Weight Loss
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Humaira Adam Omar
Superstition VS Stupidstition
Superstition VS Stupidstition “Thou art suffer ten days bad luck if thou doest walk under a ladder.”
Superstition is a false belief that only some people believe in and which other people would brush off as an act of ignorance. It brings about the knowledge of the future. Some gullible people believe every word of it while others think its pure nonsense. All humans are equal so how can one human have more power than another human being? If we all knew what was going to happen in the future than so many incidents could have been prevented. So many wars could have been prevented, so many lives could have been saved, so many diseases could have been cured and the list goes on . . .
The Romans of the Shakespearian times were very superstitious. They based all their actions on superstitious beliefs. They believe that if a barren woman is touched by a muscular man, while he is racing, she will fall pregnant. This only happens once a year at the feast of Lupercal. They also believe in predicting the future. The soothsayer told Caesar that something will happen to him on the ides of March, which we call the15 March. Some of the Romans also believe that a storm will bring trouble. Political trouble, as there was a storm on the night of Lupercal.
In today’s times people still believe in superstitious beliefs. They don’t believe in all the Roman beliefs, but they do have their own beliefs. A lot of people believe in reading star signs. They believe that all people born in a certain time frame have the same destiny. They all read the same star sign to it’s obvious that they believe that it will happen to them. People who believe in these superstitious beliefs are very gullible. They believe everything that they are told, that they see and read. A lot of people believe that breaking a mirror causes seven years bad luck, walking under a ladder is bad luck and all those other crazy things. The older generation is somewhat very superstitious. They teach these stupid beliefs to their kids and grandkids. That is how the belief passes through generations. Each religion has there own beliefs. We might find their beliefs to be stupid superstitions, but in actual fact it is what their religion teaches them.
Superstition is a false belief that only some people believe in and which other people would brush off as an act of ignorance. It brings about the knowledge of the future. Some gullible people believe every word of it while others think its pure nonsense. All humans are equal so how can one human have more power than another human being? If we all knew what was going to happen in the future than so many incidents could have been prevented. So many wars could have been prevented, so many lives could have been saved, so many diseases could have been cured and the list goes on . . .
The Romans of the Shakespearian times were very superstitious. They based all their actions on superstitious beliefs. They believe that if a barren woman is touched by a muscular man, while he is racing, she will fall pregnant. This only happens once a year at the feast of Lupercal. They also believe in predicting the future. The soothsayer told Caesar that something will happen to him on the ides of March, which we call the15 March. Some of the Romans also believe that a storm will bring trouble. Political trouble, as there was a storm on the night of Lupercal.
In today’s times people still believe in superstitious beliefs. They don’t believe in all the Roman beliefs, but they do have their own beliefs. A lot of people believe in reading star signs. They believe that all people born in a certain time frame have the same destiny. They all read the same star sign to it’s obvious that they believe that it will happen to them. People who believe in these superstitious beliefs are very gullible. They believe everything that they are told, that they see and read. A lot of people believe that breaking a mirror causes seven years bad luck, walking under a ladder is bad luck and all those other crazy things. The older generation is somewhat very superstitious. They teach these stupid beliefs to their kids and grandkids. That is how the belief passes through generations. Each religion has there own beliefs. We might find their beliefs to be stupid superstitions, but in actual fact it is what their religion teaches them.
Some superstitious beliefs are listed below:
Ambulance: Seeing an ambulance is very unlucky unless you pinch your nose or hold your breath until you see a black or a brown dog.
Touch your toes
Touch your nose
Never go in one of those until you see a dog.
Apple: Think of five or six names of boys or girls you might marry, as you twist the stem of an apple, recite the names until the stem comes off. You will marry the person whose name you were saying when the stem fell off.
If you cut an apple in half and count how many seeds are inside, you will also know how many children you will have.
Baby: To predict the sex of a baby: Suspend a wedding band held by a piece of thread over the palm of the pregnant girl. If the ring swings in an oval or circular motion the baby will be a girl. If the ring swings in a straight line the baby will be a boy.
Bed: It's bad luck to put a hat on a bed.
If you make a bedspread, or a quilt, be sure to finish it or marriage will never come to you.
Placing a bed facing north and south brings misfortune.
You must get out of bed on the same side that you get in or you will have bad luck. When making the bed, don't interrupt your work, or you will spend a restless night in it.
Bird: A bird in the house is a sign of a death.
If a robin flies into a room through a window, death will shortly follow.
Birth: Monday's child is fair of face; Tuesday's child is full of grace; Wednesday's child is full of woe; Thursday's child has far to go; Friday's child is loving and giving; Saturday's child works hard for a living. But the child that is born on the Sabbath day is fair and wise, good and gay.
Cat: If a black cat walks towards you, it brings good fortune, but if it walks away, it takes the good luck with it.
Photograph: If 3 people are photographed together, the one in the middle will die first.
Sneeze: If you sneeze on a Monday, you sneeze for danger; Sneeze on a Tuesday, kiss a stranger; Sneeze on a Wednesday, sneeze for a letter; Sneeze on a Thursday, something better; Sneeze on a Friday, sneeze for sorrow; Sneeze on a Saturday, see your sweetheart tomorrow. Sneeze on a Sunday, and the devil will have domination over you all week.
Umbrella: It's bad luck to open an umbrella inside the house, especially if you put it over your head.
My personal belief is: I think that it is stupid and utter nonsense. It is just a waste of time, paper, money and energy. No living creature can predict the future. Only Allah can. If we all knew what was going to happen to us in ten years time, than what’s the point of living. There will never be any fun in anyone’s life because we all already know what’s going to happen. The whole point of enjoying life is waiting in suspense to know what is going to happen next. If someone has to predict an incident about to take place in your life and it actually happens, than it’s just pure coincidence. One or two things they say might come true, but not every word of theirs will turn out true. Everyone has bad days. It doesn’t mean your star sign said that today is going to be a bad day, so it must be a bad day. It could turn out to be one of the best days of your life. How can someone who doesn’t even know your name, know your whole life? Stuff you don’t even know of . . . How can a total stranger, someone you have NEVER met in your entire life, know your life better than you do? Its plain stupidity, gullible and ignorance.
If walking under the ladder is bad luck, than builders might never have any good luck. They work with ladders everyday. They are permanently walking under ladders. What about people who work with mirrors everyday? Accidents happen all the time. Thousands of mirrors break in their hands, yet they don’t have any bad luck. They might have bad days, but that does mean that it is happening because they broke a mirror. It’s just an off day. That’s all. Everyone goes through such days.
Some people believe that seeing an ambulance is unlucky. How in the world can an ambulance be unlucky? Firstly, an ambulance is just a car. If an ambulance is unlucky, how is it that so many lives get saved in an ambulance? Some people believe that if you make a bedspread or quilt and you don’t finish making it, you will never get married. How can anyone’s life be dependant on a bed sheet? Whether you get married or not is dependant on your fate, not a bed sheet.
In Islam, it is totally wrong to believe in such superstitious beliefs. Muslims believe that only Allah knows the future. No one else has the power to see the future. Believing in superstition takes one away from his Imaan. Disaster and misfortune takes place according to the will and power of Allah. No other force or power can direct your destiny or cause harm to you without the permission of Allah. Allah is the only one that can decide our fate. No actions of ours will determine what Allah has in store for us. No action is done without Allah’s knowledge. Allah knows everything and sees everything. Muslims do not believe in star signs, palmistry, horoscopes, fortunetellers, astrology or any of these things. These people are normal human beings so how can they have the power and knowledge to predict the future.
Some people have this belief that nikkah contracted in the month of Safar is bad luck. How can any Islamic month be unlucky? What people are trying to say is that for thirty days one will have bad luck. The pre-Islamic Arabs believed that Safar is a serpent that dwells in the stomach of man. It comes to life in this month and causes various types of illnesses and diseases. Thus people fall ill more in this month than any other month. Therefore this month is known as the month of Safar.
Practicing magic is tantamount to kufr in Islam. Just as it is haraam for Muslims to consult with diviners or fortunetellers, it is likewise haraam for them to seek the help of magicians, sangoma’s and witch doctors.
"No soul knows what it will earn tomorrow." [Luqman, 31:34]
"The person who goes to a soothsayer and believes in him has rejected that which was revealed to Muhammad (Sall-Allahu alayhi wa sallam)." [Musnad Ahmad]
"O Allah! If in Your knowledge, this matter is good for my religion, my livelihood and my affairs; immediate and in the distant future, then ordains it for me, make it easy for me and bless it for me. And if in your knowledge, this matter is bad for my religion, my livelihood, and my affairs; immediate and in the distant future, then turns it away from me, and turns me away from it. And ordain for me the good wherever it be and make me pleased with it."
The Holy Qur'ân states: "No misfortune can happen on earth nor (afflict) your souls, but is recorded in a Book (long) before we bring it into existence; that is truly easy for Allâh".
The Holy Qur'ân states: "If I had knowledge of the unseen I should have had abundance of good and no evil should have touched me. Truly I am a Warner and a Giver of glad tidings to those who have faith".
"Say - No one in the heavens and earth knows the unseen except Allah".
"Anyone who goes to a diviner, a practitioner of magic or a soothsayer, asking something and believing in it, denies what was revealed to Mohammed".
Superstition is such a thing that can ruin people’s lives. It can destroy innocent people’s lives. Some people go to magicians and all those freaky people and ask them to torture all the people who wish evil upon them or who they wish evil to fall upon. Someone’s peaceful life can be destroyed because of all these sick people and their black magic.
A person who does this is sick, but a person who goes to such people are mentally retard. Which person in their right mind would want to go to such a person who destroys other people’s lives for a living? No one has the right to destroy someone else’s life. Some people also kill themselves in the process. Others commit murder. All this “junk” just leads to blood shed and unnecessary trouble.
What is the point in knowing your future? How will you enjoy life if you already know everything that is going to happen to you? People look forward to finding out that they are going to marry, what’s going to happen in their lives and all those exciting things. What’s the point of life if you know everything already? How are you going to look forward to life if you already know what is going to happen next? How boring and dull would life be if we didn’t have anything to look forward to?
Life is a journey, enjoy the ride. Stop interfering with the laws of nature. Always remember: what goes around comes around even harder. The tables turn. You don’t want bad things to happen to you so why allow something bad to happen to someone else? Be a better person and make a good difference in someone else’s life.
Friday, February 1, 2008
Life Orientation
MISSION
I hope to bring myself across as a highly confident and successful woman who will pursue all her dreams under any circumstance in order to reach my initiative. One of my dreams being to graduate from university with high qualifications of being a well-known, determined and successful chartered accountant. I want to tour the world. I want to settle down in a foreign country. I will play a big role in charity work.
VISION
In 2 years time, I see myself graduating from school and entering into the real world. I will go to university and achieve my goals. I would like to tour the world and one day settle down in a foreign country. In 7 years time I plan on being one of the most successful and charitable woman in the world. I want to make a difference in this world. I want to help in freeing all the people in distress. I will play a big role in saving Iraq, Iran, Lebanon, Palestine, Afghanistan, Rwanda and all the countries facing problems.
GOAL
Tour the world
Go to university and graduate in chartered accountant
Save all places facing problems
Do a lot of charity work
Be one of the richest and most successful woman in the world
WEAKNESS
I’m too lazy
My parents are holding me back from going overseas
I hate being ordered around (hate people to tell me what to do)
I’m very shy
Have extremely short temper
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